Ababhubhisi empilweni yakho

Baningi ababhubhisi abathola indlela yabo yokuzibonakalisa ngaphakathi nangomuntu. INkosi uJesu Kristu yasho kuMath. 15:18-19, “Kepha okuphuma emlonyeni kuphuma enhliziyweni; futhi ziyamngcolisa umuntu. Ngokuba enhliziyweni kuphuma imicabango emibi, ukubulala, ukuphinga, ubufebe, ukweba, ukufakaza amanga, ukuhlambalaza.” Laba bangababhubhisi futhi kodwa futhi babhekwa njengento encane kabi, igqubu, ukuhaha, umona kanye nenzondo.

Ububi: Ingabe inhloso noma isifiso sokwenza ububi; inhloso engalungile yokwandisa icala lamacala athile njengokulimaza omunye. Njengalapho uzonda umuntu futhi ufuna ukuziphindiselela. Isisusa esingafanele sesenzo, njengesifiso sokulimaza omunye. KwabaseKolose 3:8, “Kepha manje nani lahlani konke lokhu; intukuthelo, ulaka, ububi—.” Khumbula ukuthi inzondo iyisifiso noma inhloso yokwenza okubi komunye umuntu. Ububi bumelene noNkulunkulu. UJeremiya 29:11 “Ngokuba ngiyazi imicabango engiyicabanga ngani,” usho uJehova, “imicabango yokuthula, kungabi embi, ukuba ngininike ukuphela okulindelwe.” Lena yindlela uNkulunkulu asibheka ngayo engenanzondo. Futhi ngokwabase-Efesu 4:31, “Makususwe kini konke ukufutheka, nolaka, nentukuthelo, nomsindo, nokuhlambalaza, kanye nakho konke okubi.” Eyoku-1 kaPetru 2:1-2 ithi, “Ngakho-ke lahlani ububi bonke, nayo yonke inkohliso, nokuzenzisa, nomhawu, nakho konke ukukhuluma okubi. Njengezingane ezisanda kuzalwa langazelelani ubisi lwezwi olungenakonakala, ukuze nikhule ngalo.” Ububi bungumbhubhisi womphefumulo nomzimba futhi buvumela udeveli ukuba acindezele noma aphathe umuntu. Ukubonakaliswa kwalokhu kubi futhi akukuhle. Kusuka enhliziyweni futhi kuyamngcolisa umuntu.. Uma kwenziwa ububi ngenxa yobubi bungumchithi. Uhamba kanjani nombhubhisi womphefumulo okuthiwa unya? Ingabe uphendukile kunoma yiluphi ububi noma ulwa nalo? Lahlani ububi, “Kepha yembathani iNkosi uJesu Kristu, ningalungiseleli inyama ukuba nifeze izinkanuko zayo,” ( Roma 13:14 ).

Amagqubu: Lona umuzwa ophikelelayo wenzondo noma intukuthelo ejulile ngenxa yezindaba ezidlule noma amacala noma ukungezwani. EkaJakobe 5:9, “Ningagqubuthelani, bazalwane, ukuze ningalahlwa; bhekani umahluleli umi phambi komnyango.” ULevitikusi 19:18, “Ungaphindiseli, ungabi namagqubu kubantwana babantu bakini, kepha wothanda umakhelwane wakho njengalokhu uzithanda wena; nginguJehova.” Ngabe ulwa nombhubhisi obizwa ngamagqubu? Niyabo, lapho usafukamele imizwa emibi kumuntu owakucasula esikhathini esidlule, mhlawumbe izinsuku eziningi, amasonto, izinyanga noma iminyaka; unezinkinga zokucasuka. Okubi kakhulu kulabo abathi bathethelela abanye; kodwa ngokushesha nje lapho okuthile kuletha ukugxila kulabo abaxolelwe; intethelelo iyashabalala futhi igqubu livusa ikhanda elibi. Ingabe ubhekene namagqubu? Yenza okuthile ngakho ngokushesha ngoba ingumchithi. Ukusindiswa kwakho kubaluleke ngaphezu kokubamba amagqubu.

Ukuhaha: Kubonakala ngesifiso esidlulele noma eseqile sengcebo noma impahla noma impahla yomunye. NgokukaLuka 12:15, “Xwayani, nixwaye ukuhaha, ngokuba ukuphila komuntu akumi ebuningini bempahla yakhe.” Kunjani ukuhaha empilweni yakho? Ingabe ulwa nalo mbhubhisi omubi? Lapho ufisa noma unomona ngalokho okungowomunye; kangangokuthi uzifunela yona futhi kokunye uyifuna ngazo zonke izindlela, ulwa nokuhaha futhi awukwazi. Khumbula kwabaseKolose 3:5-11.

“Ukuhaha okungukukhonza izithombe.” Izikhathi eziningi simelana nemibhalo futhi sikhohlwe ukuyilalela. Ukumelana nemibhalo kuwukuhlubuka eqinisweni (iZwi likaNkulunkulu), njengoba kuphawulwe kweyoku-1 Samuweli 15:23, “Ngokuba ukuhlubuka kunjengesono sokuthakatha, nenkani injengobubi nokukhonza izithombe.” Qaphela umbhubhisi obizwa ngokuthi ukuhaha ngoba kubuye kuxhumene nokuhlubuka, ubuthakathi kanye nokukhonza izithombe.

Umona: Isifiso sokuba nempahla noma ikhwalithi noma ezinye izimfanelo ezifiselekayo zomunye umuntu. Izifiso ezinjalo ziholela emuzweni wokulangazelela okunenzondo noma umuzwa wokunganeliseki ovuswa izimfanelo zomunye umuntu, inhlanhla noma impahla. IzAga 27:4 , “Ukuthukuthela kuyisihluku, nentukuthelo iyachichima; kodwa ngubani ongema phambi komhawu na? Futhi, “Inhliziyo yakho mayingabi namhawu ngezoni, kepha mawube sekumesabeni uJehova usuku lonke.”— IzAga 23:17 . NgokukaMat. 27:18, “Ngokuba wayazi ukuthi bamnikele ngomona. Futhi IzEnzo 7:9, “Okhokho baba nomhawu, bathengisa uJosefa eGibithe, kepha uNkulunkulu wayenaye.” Sibheka kuThithu 3:2-3, “Bangakhulumi kabi ngomuntu, bangabi-izingxabano, kodwa babe mnene, bebonisa ubumnene bonke kubantu bonke. Ngokuba nathi kade sasiyiziwula, singalaleli, sikhohliswa, sikhonza izinkanuko nezinjabulo ezihlukahlukene, siphila ebubini nomhawu, sizondwa, sizondana.” Ukubheka ngokushesha uJakobe 3:14 no-16, “Kepha uma ninomhawu obabayo nokubanga ezinhliziyweni zenu, ningaziphakamisi, ningaqambi iqiniso amanga; uSathane usebenza lapha)." Encwadini yezEnzo 13:45, “Kepha abaJuda lapho bebona isixuku, bagcwala umona, baphikisana nalokho okwakhulunywa nguPawulu, bephikisa futhi behlambalaza.” Ungawufaki umona ngoba ubhubhisa umphefumulo nempilo yakho.

Umunyu: Cishe zonke izinhlobo zokucasuka ziqala kumuntu ozwa intukuthelo. Noma kunjalo, ukubambelela kuleyo ntukuthelo isikhathi eside kukhula kube intukuthelo. Khumbula umbhalo usiyala ukuthi sithukuthele kodwa singoni; ilanga malingashoni nisathukuthele (Kwabase-Efesu 4:26). Ukucasuka kwenzeka lapho uzwa sengathi akukho sinyathelo esisele okumelwe usithathe, ngoba konke kungaphezu kwamandla akho. Inkosi uSawule yaba nenzondo enkosini uDavide, ngokuba uJehova wamala ukuba abe yinkosi phezu kwayo, ngakho wayibekela inkosi uDavide lokho. Intukuthelo yayingaholela ekubulaleni, njengoba uSawule azama ngazo zonke izindlela ukubulala uDavide. Lokhu kwakungenxa yokuthi uSawule wavumela impande yomunyu ukuba ikhule kuye. Intukuthelo ingumbhubhisi, labo abakuvumela ukuba kukhule kubo ngokushesha bathola ukuthi abakwazi ukuthethelela, igqubu liyabahlukumeza, bahlezi bekhononda, abakwazi ukwazisa okuhle ezimpilweni zabo: abakwazi ukujabula nabanye abantu. noma bazwelane nalabo ababacasukelayo. Umunyu womisa umphefumulo futhi wenze indawo yezifo zomzimba kanye nokusebenza kabi komzimba. Umphefumulo omunyu uzobhekana nokuwohloka ngokomoya.

Khumbula eyabase-Efesu 4:31 , ethi: “Makususwe kini konke ukufutheka, nolaka, nentukuthelo, nomsindo, nokuhlambalaza kanye nabo bonke ububi.” Umhawu unonya njengethuna, amalahle awo angamalahle omlilo, onamalangabi avuthayo.” (IsiHlabelelo SeziHlabelelo 8:6). “Isela alizi kodwa ukweba, nokubulala, nokubhubhisa, (NgokukaJohane 10:10). Umbhubhisi ngusathane futhi amathuluzi akhe ahlanganisa ububi, umunyu, umona, ukuhaha, amagqubu nokunye okuningi. Ningabavumeli laba babhubhisi baninqobe futhi nigijimele ize umncintiswano wobuKristu. UPawulu wathi, gijimani ukuze ninqobe, (Fil.3:8; 1Kor. 9:24). Heb.12:1-4, “Ngakho-ke, lokhu nathi sihaqiwe yifu elikhulu kangaka lofakazi, masilahle konke okusindayo nesono esisithandela kalula, sigijime ngokubekezela lokho kubekwe phambi kwethu. sibheka kuJesu umqalisi nomphelelisi wokukholwa kwethu; owathi ngenxa yentokozo eyayibekwe phambi kwakhe wathwala isiphambano, engalinaki ihlazo; wabekezelela ukuphikisana kwezoni ezimelene naye, bhekani, funa nikhathale, niphele amandla engqondweni yenu. Anikamelani nesono kuze kube segazini.” UJesu Kristu wabekezelela konke lokhu ngaphandle kobubi, igqubu, ukuhaha, intukuthelo, umona nokunye okunjalo ngenxa yenjabulo eyayibekwe phambi Kwakhe. Abasindisiwe bayinjabulo yakhe. Masilandele ezinyathelweni zakhe, ngenjabulo yokuphila okuphakade kanye nephakade eliphambi kwethu; futhi sidelele ezimpilweni zethu, ababhubhisi, inzondo, amagqubu, intukuthelo, ukuhaha, umona nokunye okunjalo. Uma ukulewebhu yokubhujiswa kukaSathane, phenduka ugezwe ngegazi likaJesu Kristu, futhi ubambelele enjabulweni ebekwe phambi kwakho, noma ngabe izimo zinjani.

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