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Umtshato sisiqalo okanye ukuqala kosapho, kwaye kukuzibophelela kubomi bonke. Idala imeko yokukhula kokungazicingeli, njengoko wamkela omnye umntu ebomini bakho nasendaweni. Ingaphezulu kokumanyana ngokwasemzimbeni; lukwamanyano lokomoya kunye nolweemvakalelo. Ngokwebhayibhile olu manyano lubonisa enye phakathi kukaKristu nebandla laKhe. UYesu wathi into ayihlanganisileyo uThixo, (indoda nebhinqa, ubomi babo bonke) mayingabikho ndoda eyahlulayo, kwaye le yindoda enye (indoda nomfazi wayo). KwiGenesis 2:24; Kwakhona ku-Efe. 5: 25-31, "Amadoda bathande abafazi benu njengokuba noKristu walithandayo ibandla waza wazinikela ngenxa yalo," kwaye ivesi 28 ithi, "Ngokunjalo namadoda kufuneka abathande abafazi bawo njengemizimba yawo. Lowo umthandayo umkakhe, uyazithanda. ” Ngokweziqendu 33, “Kodwa ke manithi nani ngabanye, elowo amthande umkakhe, njengoko azithanda ngako; Umfazi ke makayoyike indoda. ”

Isifundo seMizekeliso 18:22 siyakufundisa ukuba, "Othe wafumana umfazi, ufumene into elungileyo, wazuza ukuthandwa yiNkosi." UThixo wamisela umtshato kwasekuqaleni, ngoAdam noEva, hayi ngeEves ezimbini okanye ezintathu. Kwakungengo-Adam noJames kodwa ngu-Adam no-Eva. Umtshato ufana noKristu kunye neCawa. Icawe ibizwa ngokuba ngumtshakazi kwaye umtshakazi akangowesilisa okanye umyeni. Xa indoda ifumana umfazi, ibhayibhile yathi iyinto elungileyo kwaye ufumana ubabalo lweNkosi. Makhe sihlolisise iinyani size sibone:

  1. Ukuze indoda ifumane umfazi ifuna uncedo oluvela kuThixo kuba konke oko kukhazimla ayiyigolide; kananjalo umtshato lixesha elide lokuzibophelela kwaye nguThixo kuphela owaziyo ngekamva. Ukufumana umfazi indoda kufuneka ifune ubuso bukaThixo ukukhokelwa kunye neengcebiso ezilungileyo. Umtshato ufana nehlathi kwaye ngekhe uyazi ukuba ungayifumana phi. Ngamanye amaxesha sicinga ukuba sizazi kakuhle; kodwa iimeko zomtshato zinokuvelisa iinxalenye ezimbi nezilunge kuwe. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka uyibandakanye iNkosi kolu hambo kwasekuqaleni, ukuze kula maxesha mabi nawalungileyo ubize ngokulinganayo eNkosini. Umtshato luhambo olude kwaye ihlala iyinto entsha yokufunda; Kufana nokuqhubeka kwemfundo kwimeko yomsebenzi. Ufuna ntoni kwiqabane? Kukho iimpawu onokuzibona engqondweni, kodwa mandikuxelele, ngekhe ufumane iqabane eligqibeleleyo, kuba uyinyumba yokungafezeki ngokwakho. UKrestu kuni bobabini kulapho nifumana khona ukugqibelela, olo lubabalo uThixo alunikayo kumtshato onothando nowoyika uThixo. Njengoko uqala ubomi bakho bomtshato, utshintsho luqala ukwenzeka emva kwethutyana. Amazinyo ayawa, intloko inokuba yinkqayi, isikhumba sishwabane, ukugula kungatshintsha amandla emtshatweni, sithatha ubunzima kunye notshintsho lweemilo kwaye abanye bethu bayarhona xa silele. Zininzi izinto ezinokwenzeka ngenxa yokuba umtshato ulihlathi kunye nohambo olude. Xa inyanga yobusi iphelile, uxinzelelo lobomi luya kuvavanya isisombululo somtshato wethu. Kodwa iNkosi iyakukhokela kwaye ibe nawe ukuba uyambizela emtshatweni kwasekuqaleni naselukholweni.
  2. Umtshato sisixhobo esimnandi esandleni seNkosi ukuba uyanikwa. Makhe sihlolisise ngale ndlela. Ukuba umtshato uzinikele eNkosini, sinokubanga igama lakhe kwezi zibhalo zilandelayo. U-18: 19 uthi, "Ukuba ababini kuni bathe bavumelana emhlabeni malunga nento abanokuthi bayicele, baya kuyenzelwa nguBawo osemazulwini." Kwakhona uMat. U-18: 20 ufundeka ngolu hlobo, "Kuba apho bahlanganisene khona egameni lam, nokuba babini nokuba bathathu, ndikho apho phakathi kwabo." Le mizekelo mibini ibonisa amandla kaThixo emtshatweni. Ngaphandle kokuba kuvunyelwene ababini bangasebenza njani kunye. UThixo ukhangele indawo yobunye, ubungcwele, uxolo kunye novuyo; ezi zinokufumaneka ngokulula kumtshato ozibophelelayo kwaye zinikezelwe kuThixo. Kulula kwaye kuthembekile ukuba nesibingelelo sosapho emtshatweni, esinikelwe kuKristu Yesu; unayo ngoku.
  3. Othe wafumana umfazi, ufumene into elungileyo; Into elungileyo apha inento yokwenza neempawu zangaphakathi ezifihliweyo kuye kwaye zibonakalisiwe emtshatweni. Ubutyebi bukaThixo. Uyindlalifa kunye nawe yobukumkani bukaThixo. NgokweMizekeliso 31: 10-31, “Ngubani na ofumene umfazi onesidima? Lingaphezulu nakwikorale ixabiso lakhe. Ikholose ngaye intliziyo yendoda yakhe, Ayisayi kuswela nto. Uyiphatha kakuhle, kungabi kakubi, Yonke imihla yobomi bakhe. Umlomo wakhe uwuvula ngobulumko; Umyalelo onenceba uselulwimini lwakhe. Bayasuka oonyana bakhe, bathi unoyolo; Indoda yakhe iyamdumisa. Mnikeni kwiziqhamo zezandla zakhe, Imdumise imisebenzi yakhe emasangweni. ”
  4. Othe wafumana umfazi, ufumene okulungileyo eNkosini. Ubabalo yinto evela eNkosini; Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba ubophelele umtshato wakho eNkosini. Xa ucinga ngo-Abraham noLote ngexesha lokwahlukana kwabo, uqala ukucinga ukuba loluphi uhlobo lobabalo olunxulumene nalo. UAbraham uxelele umtshana wakhe, uLote, ukuba akhethe (iGenesis 13: 8-13) phakathi kwamazwe aphambi kwabo. ULote usenokuthandaza okanye angathandazi ngaphambi kokukhetha indlela oza kuhamba ngayo. Ngokufanelekileyo ubabalo lusebenza ngcono ngokuthobeka. ULote wajonga kumathafa achumileyo nankcenkceshelayo iJordani kwaye wakhetha loo ndlela. Wayenokuthi ngokuzithoba axelele uAbraham njengomalume wakhe nangaphezulu kuye, ukuba akhethe kuqala. Ekugqibeleni kulula ukubona kunye nokwazi ukuba uLote wayethanda ukuya eSodom.
  5. Emtshatweni ngokomzalwana uWilliam M. Branham ukuba indoda itshata umfazi ombi oko kuthetha ukuba inkoliseko kaThixo ayikho kuloo ndoda. Le ngxelo ifuna ukucinga nzulu. Umthandazo kunye nokuzinikela ngokupheleleyo eNkosini kubaluleke kakhulu ekufumaneni ubabalo lweNkosi. Ukuthandwa kuthetha ukuba uThixo ujonge wena ngokumthobela kunye nothando lwakho kuye nangelizwi lakhe.

U-Kristu wahlawula ixabiso elikhulu njengomyeni; hayi ngesilivere okanye ngegolide kodwa ngegazi lakhe. Wenza isithembiso esinyanisekileyo kumtshakazi wakhe ukuba uzokulungiselela indawo, kwaye uzakubuya amthathe (John 14: 1-3). Indoda kufuneka ilungele umtshakazi wayo kwaye imnike ilizwi lakhe njengoYesu. Khumbula ukuba indoda kufuneka inikele ngobomi bayo ngenxa yomfazi wayo, njengoko noKristu wenzela ibandla. Gcina uyikhumbula into yokuba uKrestu wadlula ngantoni ukusindisa umntu. Bonke ababuyisa uthando lwakhe ngosindiso bamkela isimemo sakhe sokuba ngumtshakazi wakhe. NgokwamaHebhere 12: 2-4, “Sijonge kuYesu, umbhali nomphelelisi wokholo lwethu: owathi ngenxa YOLONWABO olwalubekwe phambi kwakhe, wawunyamezela umnqamlezo, elidelile ihlazo, waza wahlala phantsi ngasekunene itrone kaThixo. ” UYesu Kristu wancama yonke into ukuze akhethe umtshakazi, kodwa umbuzo ngulo, ngubani owonwabileyo ukuba ngumtshakazi wakhe? Ixesha lomtshato wakhe liyasondela kwaye wonke umtshato wasemhlabeni phakathi kwamakholwa sisikhumbuzo sesidlo sangokuhlwa somtshato seMvana. Kuza kwenzeka kungekudala kakhulu kwaye bonke abayinxalenye yomtshakazi kufuneka basindiswe, balungiselele umtshato ngobungcwele nangobunyulu, bezele lulindelo kuba uMyeni uza kuza ngesiquphe ngomtshakazi wakhe (Mat. 25: 1-10). Yibani nesidima kwaye nilungele.

Uhambo lomtshato lulindelwe; wamkela umntu omtsha ebomini bakho kwaye kufuneka ubakhathalele. Nokuba zithini iimvelaphi ezahlukeneyo, kugxilwe kubo ubudlelwane babo noYesu Krestu. Wonke umntu okholwayo makangabotshwa edyokhweni ngokungalinganiyo nongakholwayo (2nd KwabaseKorinte 6:14). Njengamakholwa siphila ubomi bethu ukukholisa lowo wanikela ngobomi bakhe emnqamlezweni weKalvari ngenxa yethu. Ukuba awusindiswanga lisekhona ithuba lokuba yinxalenye yomtshakazi. Konke okufuneka ukwenze kukwamkela ukuba uYesu Krestu wayezelwe yintombi; UThixo weza ekwimo yomntu wasweleka emnqamlezweni weKalvari. Wathi kuMarko 16:16, “wonke umntu okholwayo aze abhaptizwe uyakusindiswa kodwa ongakholwayo uyakugwetywa.” Into oyifunayo kukukholelwa ukuba uYesu Krestu waliphalaza igazi lakhe ukuze ahlawule kwaye ahlambe izono zakho. Vuma nje ukuba ungumoni kwaye ucele uYesu Kristu ukuba akuxolele izono zakho kwaye ube yiNkosi noMsindisi wakho. Bhaptizwa ngokuntywiliselwa egameni leNkosi uYesu Krestu kwaye ufumane icawe encinci yokukholelwa kwibhayibhile yobudlelane. Qala ukufunda ibhayibhile yakho yonke imihla okanye ngcono kabini yonke imihla ukuqala kwincwadi kaJohn. Cela iNkosi uYesu Kristu ukuba ikubhaptize ngoMoya oyiNgcwele kwaye wabelane nosindiso lwakho nosapho kunye nabahlobo bakho kunye nabani na oya kukumamela; kubizwa ngokuba bubuvangeli. Emva koko qhubeka ulungele ukuguqulela kunye nesidlo sangokuhlwa somtshato weMvana. Funda eyoku-1 kwabaseKorinte 15: 51-58 no-1st Tes. 4: 13-18 kunye neSityhi 19: 7-9. Vumela umyeni afunde ukuthetha kancinci kwaye aziqhelise ukuba ngumphulaphuli olungileyo kubo bobabini.

Umtshato uthatha isibindi nokuzinikela, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, kukukhokelwa kunye nentsikelelo kaThixo. Indoda iya kumshiya utata nomama wayo (intuthuzelo kunye nenkuselo) iye kumfazi wayo kwaye bobabini baya kuba nyama-nye. Indoda ngoku ithatha umtshakazi wayo njengomhlobo wayo osenyongweni kunye nokuzithemba. Qalisa kwangoko ukuba ngumfundisi wendlu yakho. Abanye bethu kusenokwenzeka ukuba khange benze kakuhle kule nto kwaye bafunde kabuhlungu. Yiba ngumfundisi kwaye unikezele ngoxanduva, qaphela amandla kunye nobuthathaka bomntu ngamnye kwaye ubuguqulele kwinzuzo yosapho. Qala kwangoko ukubeka ikhaya lakho ngokomoya, ukuqinisekisa ukuba usapho lwakho luthatha inxaxheba kuguqulelo nakwisidlo sangokuhlwa somtshato weMvana. Qala ngoku ukuseka ukutya kunye nokuzila ukutya kosapho. Qala ngoku ukuxoxa ngezemali kwaye ngubani umphathi wezezimali ongcono. Yonke into oyenzayo kufuneka ibe nokumodareyitha, ukutya, ukuchitha, isondo kunye nobudlelwane namanye amalungu osapho. INkosi ithatha indawo yokuqala ebomini benu, kwaye iqabane lenu lesibini. Ngalo lonke ixesha thabatha iingxaki zakho uzise eNkosini ngomthandazo, iingxoxo kunye nokuphanda izibhalo kunye ngaphambi kokuba uye nakowuphi na umntu ufumane uncedo. Nobabini kufuneka niluphephe uxinzelelo kwaye nichithe ixesha nidumisa uThixo. Yiba liqhula kwiqabane lakho kwaye nifunde ukuhlekisana. Ungaze usebenzise amagama amabi kwiqabane lakho nokuba kunjani. Khumbula ukuba uKristu uyintloko yendoda kwaye indoda iyintloko yomfazi. Ziqhelise ukunxibelelana kakuhle.

Phambi kokuba ndilibale, ungaze uwale ukutya komfazi wakho ngenxa yomsindo kwaye ungaze uvumele ilanga litshone kumsindo wakho. Makungabikho mntu mkhulu kakhulu ukuba athi komnye ndiyaxolisa, ndiyaxolisa; Khumbula ukuba impendulo ethambileyo ibuyisa ubushushu (IMizekeliso 15: 1).  Khumbula 1st Peter3: 7, “Ngokunjalo, nina madoda, hlalani nabo ngokokwazi, nimbeka umfazi, njengesona sitya siethe-ethe, njengeendlalifa kunye nani zobabalo lobomi, ukuze umthandazo wakho ungathinteleki. ISityhi. 19: 7 & 9. “Masivuye sigcobe, simzukise ngokuba ufikile umsitho weMvana, umfazi wayo uzilungisile. Wanikwa ukuba athiwe wambu ngelinen ecikizekileyo, emhlophe, eqaqambileyo; kuba ilinen ecikizekileyo yimisebenzi yobulungisa yabangcwele. Banoyolo abo babizelwe kwisidlo sangokuhlwa somtshato weMvana — Ezi zilizwi likaThixo eliyinyaniso. Umtshato mawubekeke ngeendlela zonke, nesilili masingadyojwa (KumaHebhere 13: 4). Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ube yinxalenye yomtshakazi? Ukuba kunjalo zenze uzilungiselele, uMyeni uza kufika kungekudala. Uxolo, uthando, ubulali, uvuyo, ukuzeka kade umsindo, ukulunga, ukholo, ubulali, ukuzeyisa kulawula ebomini bakho. VUMELA IMPENDULO ENGCONO PHANTSE UKUBA NOMSINDO YIBA LILIZWI LAKHO LOKUJONGA UMTSHATO.