UKWATI
Ukwati ndi chiyambi kapena chiyambi cha banja, ndipo ndikudzipereka kwa moyo wonse. Zimapanga malo okula mosadzikonda, popeza mumalandira munthu wina m'moyo wanu ndi malo anu. Uli woposa ukwati wakuthupi; ndi mgwirizano wauzimu komanso wamaganizidwe. Mwamalemba mgwirizanowu umafanizira pakati pa Khristu ndi mpingo wake. Yesu anati chomwe Mulungu adachiphatikiza pamodzi, (mwamuna ndi mkazi, kwa moyo wawo wonse) asalekanitse munthu aliyense, ndipo ichi ndi chokwatira (mwamuna ndi mkazi wake). Mu Genesis 2:24; Komanso pa Aefeso 5: 25-31, "amuna kondani akazi anu monganso Khristu anakonda Mpingo nadzipereka yekha chifukwa cha iwo," ndipo vesi 28 likuti, "Momwemonso amuna akonde akazi awo monga matupi awo. Wokonda mkazi wa iye yekha, adzikonda yekha. ” Malinga ndi vesi 33, “Komabe, yense wa inu akonde mkazi wake monga adzikonda yekha; ndipo mkazi ayeneranso kulemekeza mwamuna wake. ”
Phunziro la Miyambo 18:22 lidzakuphunzitsani kuti, "Aliyense amene apeza mkazi wapeza chinthu chabwino, ndipo adzakondedwa ndi Ambuye." Mulungu adayambitsa ukwati kuyambira pachiyambi, ndi Adamu ndi Hava, osati ndi Eves awiri kapena atatu. Komanso sanali Adamu ndi Yakobo koma Adamu ndi Hava. Ukwati uli ngati Khristu ndi Mpingo. Mpingo umatchedwa mkwatibwi ndipo mkwatibwi si wamwamuna kapena mkwatibwi. Pamene mwamuna apeza mkazi, Baibulo linati ndi chinthu chabwino ndipo amapeza kukondedwa ndi Ambuye. Tiyeni tiwone zowona ndikuwona:
- Kuti munthu apeze mkazi amafunikira thandizo la Mulungu chifukwa zonse zonyezimira si golide; komanso ukwati ndi nthawi yayitali yodzipereka ndipo Mulungu yekha ndiye amadziwa zamtsogolo. Kuti mupeze mkazi mwamuna ayenera kufunafuna nkhope ya Mulungu kuti amutsogolere ndi uphungu wabwino. Ukwati uli ngati nkhalango ndipo simudziwa zomwe mungapezemo. Nthawi zina timaganiza kuti timadzidziwa tokha; koma mikhalidwe yaukwati imatha kutulutsa mbali zoyipa komanso zabwinobwino za inu. Ichi ndichifukwa chake muyenera kupita ndi Ambuye paulendowu kuyambira pachiyambi, kuti munthawi zoyipa ndi zabwinozi mutha kuyitananso Ambuye. Ukwati ndiulendo wautali ndipo nthawi zonse chinthu chatsopano choti muphunzire; zili ngati kupitiliza maphunziro m'malo okhala. Mukuyang'ana chiyani kwa mnzanu? Pali mikhalidwe yomwe mungakhale nayo m'malingaliro, koma ndikuuzeni, simungapeze bwenzi labwino, chifukwa inunso ndinu mtolo wa kupanda ungwiro. Khristu mwa inu nonse ndi komwe mumapeza ungwiro, chomwe ndi chisomo chomwe Mulungu amapereka muukwati wachikondi ndi woopa Mulungu. Mukamayamba moyo wanu wapabanja, zosintha zimayamba kuchitika patapita kanthawi. Mano amatha kugwa, mutu ukhoza kukhala wadazi, khungu litakwinyika, matenda amatha kusintha zinthu m'banja, timavala makulidwe ndi mawonekedwe kusintha ndipo ena mwa ife timatha kununkhiza tulo. Zinthu zingapo zitha kuchitika chifukwa ukwati ndi nkhalango komanso ulendo wautali. Mwezi wokondedwa ukatha, zovuta pamoyo zimayesa kuthetsa banja lathu. Koma Ambuye adzakutsogolerani ndikukhala nanu ngati mudzawaitanira mu ukwati kuyambira pachiyambi komanso mwachikhulupiriro.
- Ukwati ndi chida chosangalatsa mdzanja la Ambuye ngati ungadzipereke kwa iye. Tiyeni tiwone motere. Ngati ukwati waperekedwa kwa Ambuye, ndiye kuti titha kufunsa mawu ake m'malemba otsatirawa. Lemba la 18:19 likuti, "Ngati awiri a inu abvomerezana padziko lapansi za chilichonse chomwe akapempha, Atate wanga wakumwamba adzawachitira." Komanso Matt. 18:20 amati, "Pakuti kumene awiri kapena atatu asonkhana m'dzina langa, ndiri komweko pakati pawo." Zitsanzo ziwirizi zikuwonetsa mphamvu ya Mulungu mbanja. Pokhapokha awiri atagwirizana momwe angagwirire ntchito limodzi. Mulungu akufunafuna malo a umodzi, chiyero, chiyero cha mtendere ndi chimwemwe; izi zitha kupezeka mosavuta muukwati woperekedwa ndikudzipereka kwa Mulungu. Ndikosavuta komanso mokhulupirika kukhala ndi guwa lansembe m'banja, loperekedwa kwa Khristu Yesu; khalani nayo imodzi tsopano.
- Amene wapeza mkazi wapeza chinthu chabwino. Chinthu chabwino apa ndichokhudzana ndi mawonekedwe amkati omwe abisika mwa iye ndikuwonetsedwa m'banja. Iye ali chuma cha Mulungu. Iye ndi wolandira naye limodzi inu wa ufumu wa Mulungu. Malinga ndi Miyambo 31: 10-31, “Ndani angapeze mkazi wabwino? Mtengo wake uposa ngale. Mtima wa mwamuna wake umamkhulupirira, kotero kuti sadzasowa chofunkha. Azimchitira zabwino osati zoyipa masiku onse a moyo wake. Atsegula pakamwa pake ndi nzeru; ndipo pa lilime lake pali lamulo la kukoma mtima. Ana ake adzauka, namutcha wodala; Mwamuna wake nayenso amamyamikira. Mpatseni zipatso za manja ake, ndipo ntchito zake zimyamike pazipata. ”
- Iye amene apeza mkazi amalandira chiyanjo cha Ambuye. Kukoma mtima ndi chinthu chochokera kwa Ambuye; ndichifukwa chake ndikofunikira kupereka ukwati wanu kwa Ambuye. Mukamaganizira za Abrahamu ndi Loti panthawi yomwe amalekana wina ndi mnzake, mumayamba kulingalira za chisomo chokhudzana nacho. Abrahamu adauza mphwake Loti, kuti asankhe (Genesis 13: 8-13) pakati pa mayiko omwe anali patsogolo pawo. Loti mwina adapemphera kapena sanapemphere asanasankhe njira yoyenera. Kukonda kumayenda bwino modzichepetsa. Loti anayang'ana zigwa zachonde ndi madzi a Yordano ndikusankha njira imeneyo. Akadakhala kuti modzichepetsa adauza Abrahamu ngati amalume ake komanso akulu kuposa iye, kuti asankhe choyamba. Pamapeto pake ndikosavuta kuwona komanso kudziwa kuchuluka kwa chisomo chomwe Loti anali nacho popita ku Sodomu.
- Muukwati malinga ndi m'bale William M. Branham ngati mwamuna akwatira mkazi woyipa ndiye kuti chisomo cha Mulungu sichikhala naye mwamunayo. Mawu awa amafuna kulingalira mozama. Kupemphera ndikudzipereka kwathunthu kwa Ambuye ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti Mulungu atikomere. Kukondedwa kumatanthauza kuti Mulungu akukuyang'anirani kudzera kumvera kwanu ndi chikondi chanu pa Iye ndi mawu ake.
Khristu analipira mtengo waukulu monga mkwati; osati ndi siliva kapena golidi koma ndi mwazi wake womwe. Adapanga lonjezo lokhulupirika kwa mkwatibwi wake kuti Adzakonza malo, ndipo adzabweranso kudzamutenga (Yohane 14: 1-3). Mwamuna ayenera kukhala wokonzekera mkwatibwi wake ndikumuuza mawu ake monga Yesu anachitira. Kumbukirani kuti mwamuna ayenera kupereka moyo wake chifukwa cha mkazi wake, monga Khristu adachitira mpingo. Kumbukirani zomwe Khristu adachita kuti apulumutse munthu. Onse omwe abwezera chikondi chake kudzera mu chipulumutso amavomera kuyitanidwa kwake kuti akhale mkwatibwi wake. Malinga ndi Ahebri 12: 2-4, "Kuyang'ana kwa Yesu, woyambitsa ndi womaliza wa chikhulupiriro chathu: amene chifukwa cha CHIMWEMWE chimene chinaikidwa pamaso pake, anapirira mtanda, nanyoza manyazi, ndipo wakhala kudzanja lamanja la mpando wachifumu wa Mulungu. ” Yesu Khristu adadzipereka kwambiri kuti atenge mkwatibwi wake, koma funso nlakuti, ndani ali wokondwa kukhala mkwatibwi wake? Nthawi yaukwati wake ikuyandikira ndipo ukwati uliwonse wapadziko lapansi pakati pa okhulupirira ndi chikumbutso cha mgonero wamabanja wa Mwanawankhosa. Izi zichitika posachedwa ndipo onse amene ali mbali ya mkwatibwi ayenera kupulumutsidwa, kukonzekera ukwatiwo mwachiyero ndi mchiyero, ali ndi chiyembekezo chokwanira chifukwa Mkwati adzabwera mwadzidzidzi kwa mkwatibwi wake (Mat. 25: 1-10). Khalani oganiza bwino ndi okonzeka.
Ulendo waukwati uli ndi ziyembekezo; mukulandira munthu watsopano m'moyo wanu ndipo muyenera kumuganizira. Mosasamala kanthu za kusiyana kosiyanasiyana, cholinga chiyenera kukhala ubale wawo ndi Yesu Khristu. Wokhulupirira aliyense sayenera kumangidwa m'goli ndi osakhulupirira (2nd Akorinto 6:14). Ife monga okhulupirira timakhala miyoyo yathu kukondweretsa iye amene anapereka moyo wake pa Mtanda wa Kalvare chifukwa cha ife. Ngati simunapulumutsidwe pali mwayi wokhala mbali ya mkwatibwi. Zomwe mukuyenera kuchita ndikuvomereza kuti Yesu Khristu adabadwa mwa namwali; Mulungu anabwera mwa mawonekedwe a munthu ndikufera pa Mtanda wa Kalvare chifukwa cha inu. Adati ku Marko 16:16, "Aliyense amene akhulupirira ndikubatizidwa adzapulumutsidwa koma amene sakhulupirira adzalangidwa." Zomwe mukusowa ndikukhulupirira kuti Yesu Khristu adakhetsa mwazi wake kulipira ndikutsuka machimo anu. Ingonenani kuti ndinu wochimwa ndipo pemphani Yesu Khristu kuti akukhululukireni machimo anu ndikukhala Mbuye ndi Mpulumutsi wanu. Batizidwani ndi kumizidwa mdzina la Ambuye Yesu Khristu ndikupeza mpingo wawung'ono wokhulupirira kuti muyanjane. Yambani kuwerenga baibulo lanu tsiku lililonse kapena kubwereza kawiri tsiku lililonse kuyambira m'buku la Yohane. Funsani Ambuye Yesu Khristu kuti akubatizeni ndi Mzimu Woyera ndikugawana chipulumutso chanu ndi abale anu komanso anzanu komanso aliyense amene angakumvereni; amatchedwa kulalikira. Kenako pitilizani kukonzekera kumasulira ndi mgonero waukwati wa Mwanawankhosa. Werengani 1 Akorinto 15: 51-58 ndi 1st Ates. 4: 13-18 ndi Chiv. 19: 7-9. Mulole mwamuna aphunzire kusalankhula pang'ono ndikukhala omvera wabwino pazabwino za onse awiri.
Ukwati umafuna kulimba mtima ndikudzipereka, ndipo chofunikira kwambiri ndichakuti, kutsogolera ndi madalitso a Mulungu. Mwamunayo adzasiya abambo ndi amayi (chitonthozo ndi chitetezo) ndikupita kwa mkazi wake ndipo awiriwo adzakhala thupi limodzi. Mwamunayo tsopano amatenga mkwatibwi wake kukhala mnzake wapamtima komanso wodalirika. Yambani nthawi yomweyo kuti mukhale m'busa wanyumba yanu. Ena a ife mwina sanachite bwino mu izi ndipo anaphunzira njira yovuta. Khalani abusa ndikupatsirani ena maudindo, zindikirani zomwe munthu akuchita bwino ndi zofooka ndikuwapatsa mwayi wopindulitsa banja. Yambani molawirira kukonza nyumba yanu mwauzimu, kuonetsetsa kuti banja lanu litenga nawo mbali pantchito yomasulira komanso mgonero waukwati wa Mwanawankhosa. Yambani tsopano kuti mukhazikitse chakudya ndi kusala kwa banja. Yambani tsopano kuti mukambirane zachuma chanu komanso kuti woyang'anira ndalama ndi ndani. Chilichonse chomwe mumachita chizikhala chochepera, kudya, kuwononga ndalama, kugonana komanso ubale ndi abale ena. Ambuye amatenga malo oyamba m'miyoyo yanu, ndipo mnzanu ndiye wachiwiri. Nthawi zonse tengani mavuto anu kwa Ambuye m'pemphero, kukambirana ndi kusanthula malemba pamodzi musanapite kwa munthu aliyense kuti akuthandizeni. Nonse muyenera kupewa nkhawa ndikupeza nthawi yotamanda Mulungu. Khalani oseketsa kwa mnzanuyo ndipo phunzirani kuseketsa wina ndi mnzake. Musagwiritse ntchito mawu osalimbikitsa kwa mnzanu zivute zitani. Kumbukirani kuti Khristu ndiye mutu wa mwamuna ndipo mwamuna ndiye mutu wa mkazi. Yesetsani kulankhulana bwino.
Ndisanayiwale, musakane chakudya cha akazi anu chifukwa cha mkwiyo ndipo musalole kuti dzuwa lizimira mkwiyo wanu. Musalole aliyense kukhala wamkulu kwambiri kuti anene kwa mnzake ndikupepesa, ndikupepesa; kumbukirani kuti kuyankha mofewa kumabwezeretsa mkwiyo (Miyambo 15: 1). Kumbukirani 1st Petro3: 7, “Momwemonso amuna inu, khalani nawo monga mwa chidziwitso, ndi kuchitira mkazi ulemu, monga chotengera chochepa mphamvu, ndiponso monga olowa nyumba pamodzi ndi chisomo cha moyo; kuti pemphero lanu lisayimitsidwe. ” Chibvumbulutso 19: 7 & 9. “Tiyeni tikondwere, tisangalale, ndipo timupatse ulemu chifukwa ukwati wa Mwanawankhosa wafika ndipo mkazi wake wadzikonzekeretsa. Ndipo kwa iye kunapatsidwa kuti abvale bafuta wonyezimira woti mbu: pakuti bafuta ndiye chilungamo cha oyera mtima. Odala ali iwo amene ayitanidwira ku mgonero waukwati wa Mwanawankhosa — Awa ndiwo mawu owona a Mulungu. ” Ukwati uchitidwe ulemu ndi onse, ndi pogona pakhale posadetsedwa, (Ahebri 13: 4). Kodi mukuyenera kukhala mbali ya mkwatibwi? Ngati ndi choncho konzekerani, Mkwati wafika posachedwa. Mulole mtendere, chikondi, kufatsa, chimwemwe, kuleza mtima, ubwino, chikhulupiriro, chifatso, chiletso zizilamulira miyoyo yanu. LETANI MAFUNSO ATHU KUTI AKWERETSE KUKWIYA KHALANI MAWU ANU OYENERA MU UKWATI.